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Yes, you! Listen...

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  Listen, I have something to say. The real mark of a good communicator is not what he says, but it is how he listens attentively.  Do a random test today. In a group of people who are conversing with each other, observe how many are talking and how many are just listening.  Chances are that everyone has something to say first and fast without paying attention to what the other person is saying. Observe yourself also. Are you a good listener or you are just waiting for someone to finish his/her senetence and quickly pouring in your life story/event/opinion.  Do you cut someone in between and do not allow them to finish their sentence?  Truth is that no one is listening and everyone has lots to say.  That is why social media is so popular because it is allowing people to express their thoughts and stories   Stephen R. Covey also said "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand, they listen with the intent to reply". Highly sucessful a...